“ Marriage and Society ”

-Ariful Islam Bhuiyan

The Ancient institution is a family which set up by marriage. By the group of family makes Society. Now a days an important activity marriage standing on danger. I think somebody avoid its, somebody absent minded about it. No head ache for making a happy and peaceful world. On the otherhand, they are suffering the conflict of faith, anxious, disappoint and so on. Financial weakness, the abuse of times, idleness, hopeless, the lack of guide from guardians are liable for late marriage.

Men can’t live alone. He needs help from each other. He can helps each other also. Everybody should help to other for completing any work in time. It doesn’t so difficult to help each other about any purpose.We can open our hand, heart and sight for social welfare. As a result we can get a nice and peaceful family, society and world.We can try for improving our mentality, Choices. We may be a example as a modest and gentle member of society. Senior level will share experience with junior level of Society. Junior level will make sure the developed high way of society by seniors advices and guidelines. An invisible stick and justified relation will build up with senior, junior and all ages boys and girls. This relation may build up by ideal, beliefs, well mentality and fresh thinking for the social welfare.

Ages, education, profession, works, prestiges can’t make any distance with the other member of society. If any gape or distance will stay in the society ; the developing work of society will be delayed, impossible. Education, Cultural and Social activities may be defined the problem of society and solve it.We can follow the element of social strength. We may increase and permanent the existence of society by activities.

We may solve any problem of society like as ignorance, poverty, blindness and late marriage by our cordial assessment. A large number of young boy and girls are not okey physically and mentally. We may think about social member as like as two catagories. Such as 01. Permanent, 02. Seasonal.

JAILBIRD

-Ariful Islam Bhuiyan.

On the day 5^th April, 1979 A.D.One flower had bloomed in the nicest garden at Karibari, Brahmanbaria.We can think generally, one mother & father had seen a excellent dream after seeing new borned daughter.Completing Primary, Secondery level I had met with her.I Couldn’t remember that day’s date & time.She had come to get admission in the office room with a group of fairy. Brahman Baria Government College had opened a new honors (Economics) course under Natioal University in 1997.

That was the Opening Class of Honors. We are all new students trying to be introduced with one another. I’d introduced with all. But two persons effected deeply from the first time. One is Mr. Abdur Rab Chowdhury (Pias) & another is Ms. Showgat. I felt the deepest weakness to them as the best friend.Day by day I felt weakness to Showgat more  than Pias. I got myself as a real lover of Showgat.But she didn’t any positive clearness. Does she love me?

Every morning were coming a new hope, dream & love but every evening were good bye with depriveness, darkness & worry. Every night were coming without sleepiness. Time were going by this rules. I had undone. But my pen shown a dream to live with advance or imaginary love, dream &life. From this time I am trying to convert a imaginary garden from a real love garden.Nobody can think, how much painful, difficult & unthinkable. But I’d carried & Caring right now. True love , doesn’t remove from heart until death. She told me that I’ll be able to forget her.I’v failed successfully.

I placed my cordial love to her from the first time. She was so loyal as the best friend, calm as a river, nice as nature. Her laugh was like as chirping of bird, Crying was stone-cry. My pen is loyal to her. It placed more and more poems to her. When I meet with best friend, go to the bank of river, near at nature then I miss her too much. When I hear any chirping of bird, I think she is laughing. When I see stone, I feel her crying.

Today, she is happy with her dreamful conjugal life. I pray for her peace, success & Immortal. She is alive in my heart until death. She had taken a place in my pen. Don’t mind dear reader,this is the first part of real love of Jail Bird who has borned 4^th April in 1979,Bhuiyan Bari , Bhadughar , Brahman Baria. A renounced Islamic & Cultural family is the shadow of him.

HEAVEN WORLD

Women mean Mother, Sister  & Daughter. All the respects we perform to them always. They need security & living rights with respect in all the phases of life. Can we think & share it? What’s the Present condition of them? Now a day’s we’ve forgotten to do respect them. The First Lady of Mexico, Marta Sahagun de Fox, noted that the first women's conference in 1975 in Mexico City was the start of a long journey towards ensuring respect for women's rights. We have to change, try to doing change. Long depriveness can raise any longer movement that will be universal. Don’t be afraid of any movement. Just writing to be conscious about our social, political, moral & religion duties to them. Can you think the proper security & rights of your own Mother, Sister & Daughter? Which one is problem for your Mother, Sister & Daughter you must be solve it as early as possible with morality. Your Mother, Sister & Daughter are respectable near at you. My Mother, Sister & Daughter are also respectable to me. What’s relation between you & I, He & their? The greatest introduces you are my brother or sister, I’m your brother or sister. So, all the member of my family, Society, Community & Countries is your member also generally. They can deserve security & trustee from you. On the various way of life we should to perform a real respect to them. As a result they can get a real peace and they will be more helpful in their own or any working environment. We can get the best output as a Son, Brother & Father.

"No nation can rise to the height of glory unless your women are side by side with you; we are victims of evil customs. It is a crime against humanity that our women are shut up within the four walls of the houses as prisoners. There is no sanction anywhere for the deplorable condition in which our women have to live."Mohammad Ali Jinnah, 1944 (taken from the US Library of Congress report "Pakistan - A Country Study")

The lack of respecters we can observe everywhere. Even we don’t know, how do respect myself? We are insulted ourselves time to time for our lack of consciousness and proper knowledge & its application. So we are not able to get any necessary help and support from them as a Son, Brother & Father. Any men can’t success without any help of other especially from Mother, Sister & Daughter. When this earth will be fulfill of love & respect to one another then the world will be peace full and living worth. We should try heart & soul for make sure a HEAVEN WORLD.

Dated: 29.04.2009

Reff. UN news center.

 

NO KILLING, YES PEACE.

-Arif Ibn Shams.

In Primitive age Men lived together for a clear goal to live in peace from the attack of wild animal. Day by day they increased in number, built up various Nation & Community from this group. They have broken their unity for their necessity, offence one another. No Sorry for that. Everybody has the right to stay with one another in peace. No right to take any attack to any person’s choice- dis choice , likeness- dislike which are harmless for any person’s or being’s living in peace.

If I ask anybody, do you want to live in peace? Everybody will tell “yes, certainly”. Now we have to take decisions mentally, we are all want to live in Peace. So we have to do something one after one. How can we watch the death of a man abnormally, on the conflict which is favor to any blindness of selfishness person, Community & Nation?

      This is impossible for us but we can try heart & soul in fresh mind for peace. Till now a large number of people died for negate attack from some Nation who are traitor. They tell us speech of peace but doing for their welfare. The whole world doesn’t matter for them. Where they have need something, They are telling for peace, set up democracy, reform of Democracy then make sure a darkness condition which is favor to snatch technically fulfill their wants.

Politics makes Politics, A Politics under a Politics. It’s impossible to find out the main honest view of any politics. It may be Village politics, National or International. As a man I think, If all the Veto countries are try to make a peaceful world, they can. It’s not impossible for them. But they are speaking and working  always for Peace but every day we are getting news of unstable world.

All the group of militants are getting their arms and everything as usual. Which or who are their supplier? Is it so difficult to find out that Supplier? Everybody will tell “No”. Where are the gape? The lack of honesty, trusty & Sacrifice.

Date : 20.03.2009

The Sovereignty of All Mighty.

-Ariful Islam Bhuiyan.

I love him who is my creator, Guardian & well wisher. I have no qualification for placing my obediency to please him.I have enormous sins, wrong & disobediency.I want to speak the truth, to walk on the itinerary way but falure to move. I need money to pay living cost and to fulfill the demand of every member of the world. So what, My Allah will manage it. He never failure for anything. These rights for anybody who performs his holy duties accurately in time.

“ You remember me, I remember You ”- in this holy sentence we get the right to love allah and everything can demand to him for passing the good time as the greatest creation of Creator Allah.Same about 6,666 holy sentences are waiting for our reading, realiziang & Performing in the whole life with all well wisher.Which needs are approved in a human life, Actual duties & responsibilities for the successive favour creation of Creator , we get detailes all easily there.

Why we don’t believe heart & soul for anything, any purpose Allah is sufficient for us in the every stage& phase of whole life ! I think, In naturally men can belive up on anything by any perpose.Men has an hidden power to belive one to another for the transaction in their life.As a example : Mr. Rahim start from Dhaka to Chittagong. First time he thought, Planned & Journey to Destination.When He started journey he believed that he will reach the Chittagong though he started just.As a muslim Mr. Abdur Rahim Started with the kindness of Allah (Insha Allah). Mr. Rahim & Mr. Abdur Rahim both has started to chittagong but their difference between in belief.

Where’s our problem to convey the thankfulness to Allah for his kindness?Firstly he has Created us nicely, given a nice world, to live in the dreamful universe which he has decorated so nicely at day by sun, colorful cloud and at night by Moon & Stars, by high mountains, hills, desert, Evergreen field, Clean Spring, hard Ice pool, Salty & Testy Mineral Water.Day by day invented new & moderate elements of life to make sure comfortable and enjoyable for humen life by the thinking power which has gotten by his kindness.Secondly he had given 104 Nos holy directory with 2,64000 holy prophet to us.The greatest & the Lastest holy Directory (Al-Quran) with Director (Prophet Mohammad S.M.) with his holy direction (As Sunnah) & lively example of his fellowers (The Life of Sahabies).

In the conclusion, we means the creation of Allah. Creation means the Sovereignty of the Creator. But now a days, a largest group is working for discontinue the relationship between the holy creator &  creation by greedy things & elements of life. Though their pre generation had laid lives for that perposes but not succeed referable.In this time Their post generation are success relatively. So We need to conscious strongly by the holy power of Allah.

Dated : 21.05.2009